Disciple gauge has written: "good counsel, DE is built, not rules, two kui". Mean between friends should find each other's shortcomings, if you have the wrong can't point out that two men on the moral will be annoying.
On one occasion, I ran out of maths exercise book, need to buy another one. Before school, I have two dollars for the shop to buy a book on the way. Out of the house, I just met a good friend -- Cheng Yu fe. We said hello to us, and go to school together. The small shop, I was just about to pay, but I did not touch the metal of the coin. So, I take down the bag rummaging, however, could not see a coin. I looked up at Cheng Yu Philippines: "the Philippines son, can you lend me two dollars?" Cheng Yu fe head flops: "f, why do you always forget things, I don't lend you this time!" Look and attitude, I a grievance, I didn't want to forget, which have such a friend?
In my anger I ran forward, ignore Cheng Yu fe. As he ran, I side with short, can be, this is not entirely Cheng Yu fe fault! She lent as soon as I forgot to take my things, people don't bother to blame! In school, I completely letting down, instead of thick guilt: for a long time, Cheng Yu fe always help me in silence when I forgot to take my things, this let me feel her to do so for granted! I was thinking about, and came running from a distance, handed me a new book: "next time don't forget!" My eyes gradually hair dry up...
Thanks friend, can point out my shortcomings. Hope my faults less and less, more and more friends!

弟子規(guī)上有寫：“善相勸，德皆建，過不規(guī)，道兩虧”。意思是說朋友之間應(yīng)該互相找出對方的缺點(diǎn)，如果有錯不敢指出，兩個人在道德上就會惹人厭惡。
有一次，我的數(shù)學(xué)練習(xí)本用完了，需要再買一本。上學(xué)前，我?guī)Я藘蓧K錢準(zhǔn)備在路上的小店里買一本。出了家門，我正好遇到了好朋友——程雨菲。我們打了招呼，就一起上學(xué)去了。到了小店門口，我正準(zhǔn)備掏錢，卻沒有摸到硬幣的金屬感。于是，我把書包拿下來翻找，可是，一枚硬幣都沒看到。我抬起頭看著程雨菲：“菲兒，能借我兩塊錢？”程雨菲把頭一偏：“瑤瑤，你怎么老是忘帶東西，這次我不借你了！”看著菲兒的態(tài)度，我一陣委屈，又不是我想忘帶的，哪有這樣的朋友？
我一氣之下，往前跑去，不理程雨菲了。一邊跑著，我一邊生著悶氣，可，這也不完全是程雨菲的錯呀！我一忘帶東西就向她借，人家不煩才怪呢！到了校門口，我的氣完全消下去了，取而代之的是濃濃的愧疚感：一直以來，程雨菲總是在我忘帶東西時默默地幫助我，由此讓我感覺到她這么做是理所當(dāng)然的！我正想著，菲兒從遠(yuǎn)處奔來，遞給我一本新本子：“下次不許忘帶了哦！”我的眼眶漸漸發(fā)澀了起來……
感謝朋友，能指出我的缺點(diǎn)。希望我的缺點(diǎn)越來越少，朋友越來越多！