“天下掉下個林妹妹……”，哎!老爸又唱起了另我頭痛的越劇了。沒辦法，老爸是個南方人，自小受鄉(xiāng)土文化的影響，總喜歡有事沒事就唱兩嗓子。不管是在與朋友吃飯的酒桌上，還是自己一人走在公園里，甚至大半夜無聊的站在陽臺上，他都會唱這個經(jīng)典的豫劇《選紅樓夢》段。 "The world fell a sister......" Hey, Dad! I sang another Opera a headache. No way, dad is a southerner, was influenced by the local culture, like nothing happens on the two throat singing. Whether it is on the wine table dinner with friends, or his walk in the park, even in the middle of the night boring standing on the balcony, he will sing the classic opera "choose a dream of Red Mansions". 老媽總是取笑老爸唱歌跑調(diào)，可在我看來，他壓根就不在調(diào)上。當(dāng)然這話我是不敢當(dāng)老爸面前說的，不然我想我會“死“得很慘：不是像別的孩子那樣*會被父母打得開金花銀花，而是兩眼會在若干小時內(nèi)，不停的噴水花——不是哭出來的，而是讓老爸吐出來的煙圈曛的。 Old mama always makes fun of dad singing and running, but in my opinion, he is not on the tune.. Of course this saying I dare not when my dad before said, otherwise I think I will "die" badly: not like other children as ass will be parents open honeysuckle flower, but his eyes will within several hours, non-stop water flowers -- not cry out, but let dad spit out smoke ring nightfall of. 我每次犯錯誤，老爸都會讓我坐在他的身邊，聽他講自己半生的辛酸坎坷。雖然反反復(fù)復(fù)就那點(diǎn)事兒，但我知道，老爸大半輩子過的確實(shí)是挺苦的。因?yàn)榧腋F，老爸像我這么大的時就已出來打工了。那個年代很流行彈被套的生意，所以老爸就跟同村老鄉(xiāng)，一路流浪般的做小買賣到了東北。因?yàn)橐淮芜^節(jié)去農(nóng)村買雞，他認(rèn)識了善良美麗的老媽。可以說那個年代愛情是沒有界限的，我的父母就這樣不知不覺相愛了。并且老爸也開了老媽那個還有些封建意識的小村莊的先河，做個一個準(zhǔn)倒插門女婿。可是村中的父老鄉(xiāng)親還是沒有幾個能瞧得起老爸這樣的南方小子，包括老媽的家里人也算上。在他們的印象中，關(guān)內(nèi)的人根本不可能像北方漢子那樣憑著黝黑矯健的體格下田種地，養(yǎng)家糊口。 Every time I make mistakes, dad will let me sit around him, listening to his life of bitterness and frustrations. Although over the things that point, but I know, Dad had spent most of his life is indeed very bitter. Because the family was poor, when my father was so big, I had to work.. That's very popular play quilt business, so dad with townsman, a wandering like a peddler to the northeast. Because a feast to buy chicken, he met the good and beautiful mother. It can be said that there is no boundary in the love, my parents unknowingly fall in love. Dad and mom also opened the small village some feudal consciousness precedent, a quasi daochamen son-in-law. But the folks in the village or no few esteems Dad this southern boy, including the mother's home. In their minds, and customs of the people impossible as man in the north as much dark vigorous physical farming to feed their families. 可是憨厚內(nèi)向的老爸，只是低著頭在別人不相信的眼神中默默努力著。在我剛滿一周歲時，老爸就帶著老媽和我來到了遼東本溪這個老工業(yè)城市，投奔了當(dāng)時已經(jīng)在這兒安了家的兩位舅舅。后來，老爸又學(xué)了一項(xiàng)不錯的木工手藝，也成了當(dāng)時我們家這片小有名氣的木匠。所以，從小到大，在我的印象里，老爸總是早出晚歸地背著他那個破舊的工具箱，唱著沒有調(diào)的“天上掉下個林妹妹”. But honest introverted dad, just looked down at the others do not believe in the eyes silently diligently. When I just turned one year old, Dad took Mom and I came to the Liaoning Benxi this old industrial city, defected to the was already here in the home, two uncles. Later, Dad learned a good carpentry technology, but also became the home of this little famous carpenter. So, from small to large, in my impression, dad always from morning to evening carrying his shabby toolbox, sing no tune "fall from the sky a forest sister". 就這樣，十年匆匆而過。在這期間，老爸目睹了身邊的鄰里朋友由一時的成功到得意忘形，最終淪落到失敗的經(jīng)歷。而老爸卻還是那樣，心安理得地做一個普通的木匠，從來不去想一步登天等大錢的事兒。老爸說拿錢不好掙，即使掙來了也未必能守得住。老爸常說，我非常主張讓孩子在一個相對不算富裕的家庭長大，這樣可以讓孩子有上進(jìn)心，更主要的是可以讓孩子把金錢與利益看得淡薄一些。每當(dāng)老爸說這話的時候，老爸的眼神里就有一種穿透力，直射進(jìn)我的心底，讓我感到他的精神力量。 So, ten years. During this period, dad saw neighbors and friends around by the success of the moment to get dizzy with success, eventually reduced to the experience of failure. And my dad did, to feel at ease and justified to do an ordinary carpenter, never think of such a thing to attain the highest level in one step. Dad said the money is not earned good money, even if earned may not be tenable. Father used to say that I highly advocated let the children in a relatively wealthy family grew up, so you can let the child has the desire to do better, more important is to let the children put money and benefit weak number. Whenever dad said this, Dad's eyes in the eyes of a penetrating power, into my bottom of my heart, so I feel his spiritual strength. 或許天使更喜歡把幸運(yùn)的羽毛，給那些踏踏實(shí)實(shí)勤勤懇懇熱愛于勞動的人。當(dāng)我上初中的時候，父親已在本地開了一個小型裝修公司，成功轉(zhuǎn)型為一個商人。一般來說，商人都留著標(biāo)準(zhǔn)的三七分頭，可老爸的頭發(fā)依舊還是老樣子，蓬亂得像秋天的蒿草。我有時候開不過去了，就勸道：“爸，現(xiàn)在咱家條件好了，天天吃香的喝辣的都沒問題，你也應(yīng)該改變下自己的型像，像個有錢人的樣子”。老爸聽了這話后，當(dāng)下就板著臉，搖了搖頭喝道：“有錢個鳥!人家吃啥咱就吃啥，我跟你說以后不過節(jié)絕不買大魚大肉�！蔽乙桓焙懿凰谋砬椋骸澳阏湍敲磽搁T呢?掙得錢不花不享受，不等于沒用嗎?”老爸一瞪眼：“咱家沒錢，咱就是老農(nóng)民，你永遠(yuǎn)是老農(nóng)民的兒子。就是有錢也的留著供年念書娶媳婦，咱絕對不能在吃用上在街坊鄰居面前起高調(diào)�！蔽液懿婚_心，關(guān)上了自己的房門，躺在床上沖著天花板發(fā)呆。門外的咳嗽聲越來越大了，我知道他又在一根接一根的吸煙了。 Perhaps more like the lucky angel feathers, to those who do love to work diligently and conscientiously working people. When I was in junior high school, my father had a small renovation company locally, the successful transition for a businessman. General businessmen were left standard of Panax separately, Dad's hair is still the old appearance, disheveled was like the fall of wormwood. I sometimes drive past, it advised: "Dad, now our family condition good, every day the popular hot drink no problem, you should also change your type like, like a rich man". Dad listenned to this words, at that moment pout, shaking head shouted: "a rich bird! People eat what we eat what, after I told you but never buy food." I have a pair of very unhappy expression: "how can you be so stingy?? earn money not spent do not enjoy, is not equal to useless??" Dad a stare: "I didn't have the money, Zan is the old farmer, you will always be the old farmer's son. Is the money to stay for years to marry a wife, I can not eat with the neighbors in front of the high profile." I was very unhappy, shut the door of his room, lying in bed on a ceiling. The cough outside the door is growing, and I know he's smoking again in one of the next.. 老爸輕輕的敲我房間的門，我卻沒有理會他。末了。老爸只是在門口長嘆了幾聲氣。然后，說了幾句讓我覺得意外又非常在理的一段話：“你要記得，一個人不管地位多高，金錢多厚，都不能忘本。畢竟誰都曾吃過剩飯，穿過人家給的舊衣。如果因一時的成功而得意忘形，那必將使你悔恨一生。爸教你的都是好話，爸希望你成才更希望你成人。 Dad knocked at the door of my room, but I ignored him.. Finally. Dad was at the door a few blasts of sigh. Then, said a few words to let me feel unexpected and very in the passage: "you have to remember, a person no matter how high the status, money more thick, do not forget. After all, who had eaten leftovers, through the people to the old clothes. If because of the temporary success that will make you get dizzy with success, regret life. Dad taught you are good things, Dad hope you become more hope that you adult. 我的淚水難以控制地流了下來，一滴一滴的流在了枕邊。我慢慢的理解了父親無私的愛，感覺它正在一點(diǎn)一點(diǎn)地融入我的血液里。我慶幸自己有這樣一個偉大而又平凡的父親，他在我人生路上指引著我，鞭策著我，鼓勵幫助著我。 It is difficult to control my tears streaming down, a drip flow on a pillow. I slowly understood my father's selfless love, feeling that it was in my blood at one point one.. I am glad that I have such a great and ordinary father, he guides me in my life, to encourage me and encourage me. 夢里，我隱約聽到了父親又在哼唱著那沒有曲調(diào)的，“天上掉下個林妹妹”，我的嘴角不禁輕輕上揚(yáng)，我有一個好爸爸。 In the dream, I vaguely heard the father and humming the tune, "a forest sister" fall from the sky, my mouth can not help but slightly higher, I have a good father.
